Sunday, 10 March 2013

ES2007S: Fostering Intercultural Communication

Two years back, I went on a Student Exchange Programme (SEP) to Linköping, Sweden, and had the opportunity to meet many local, exchange, and even Master's students, from around the globe. One thing always brought us together outside school - FOOD!

A couple of us had the honor of having dinner with our friend's buddy, a Swede, and his flat mates. The Singaporeans brought along curry, while the Swedes prepared moose stew.

Swedish-Singaporean dinner gathering!
We, the Singaporean students who were on exchange at the same university, were also pretty close to the Taiwanese, Korean and Japanese students there.  

We had a couple of country themed dinner sessions together, whereby students from that particular country will prepare dishes unique to their country. The Taiwanese prepared dishes such as braised meat, glutinous rice balls and bubble milk tea. The Koreans made popular Korean dishes such as dukbokki (rice cakes), kimbap (korean sushi) and ramyeon (ramen). Last but not least, the Japanese students prepared miso soup for the Japanese dinner, and even taught us how to make sushi! In turn, we returned their kindness by cooking food that we felt that were representative of Singapore, such as Hainanese chicken rice and bak kut teh.

Taiwan dinner, prepared by the Taiwanese!





Learning how to make Sushi from a Japanese!
Other than just enjoying all the good food during the dinner sessions, we also managed to learn a lot about each others' culture.

Here are some of the cultures/traditions that I've learnt from these dinner sessions:

  1. Stew is a common fare during winter for the Swedes, and what I find the most interesting is that some families actually hunt for their own meat! Although the Älg (moose) that I had from the stew was bought from the supermarket, but C, the Swede chef of the stew, told us that his family has already hunted for their game. (It was around October/November that we had the cultural exchange dinner with C and his flatmates.)                                                                                 More about moose hunting: http://www.nordicway.com/search/Sweden/Sweden_Moose%20Hunting.htm
  2. Glutinous rice balls (also known as tang yuan) represent family union (probably because it sounds like family union in chinese: tuan yuan). It is usually served during the Chinese Winter Soltice Festival and other occasions of family reunion. In fact, eating glutinous rice balls is not a tradition that is unique to Taiwan, and is practiced by most chinese in Asia.
  3. During birthdays, the chinese mothers will cook "long life noodles" (also known as mian xian) for the birthday child as it signifies longevity. On the other hand, in Korea, Korean mothers make seaweed soup during birthdays! The reason behind this tradition can be found here: http://blog.korea.net/?p=2320
Korean- Singaporean- Taiwanese gathering! Food brings people together! (:
Having interacted with people from so many countries and culture, I am thankful that globalization has equipped with most of us with a common language, English, which has allowed us to communicate with one another. However, we should also be mindful that not everyone has the same English standards, and that active listening and effective communication should still be practiced in order for our messages to get over correctly. This is especially important as conveying the message wrongly may cause the recipient to be offended.

To end off, I'd encourage those who are still in year 1 - 3 to apply for exchange! In my opinion, it is one of the highlights in my university life. Year 4s, keep calm and travel on. (:



9 comments:

  1. Hi Samantha,

    I am having hunger pangs now after reading your blog post.:)

    I think that the different birthday traditions that you have mentioned in your blog post were very interesting.Different culture celebrate birthdays in different ways but they all have the same purpose which is to bless the birthday girl/boy. I also did some research and found out that in Ireland, they have a tradition whereby the birthday child will be uplifted upside down and have their head gently bump on the floor for good luck.

    You also mentioned that we should be mindful of the different English standard and I totally agreed with it. Despite speaking the same language, we may still have difficulty understanding one another cause of the difference in the ascent , tone and the speed of our speech. Hence, we indeed must be aware of the difference in different culture and try to be patient with one another.

    Hopefully I have the opportunity to go for SEP or summer programme next year: )

    Michelle


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    1. Hey Michelle! I was also getting hunger pangs as I was writing my post and viewing all the photos! Yes, we should always be mindful of our words and actions, especially when Singapore is a multi-racial country. I hope you get to go on SEP or summer programme! All the best! (:

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  2. Hey Samantha,
    I didn't know before today that it was in Linköping you did your exchange program in Sweden; same university as me and Sofie then :D Maybe we have seen each other before, even if it is a lot of student at the university..Where did you live, Ryd?

    I hope you liked the stew made of moose, my dad is a hunter as well and sometimes he shoots moose so I eat it pretty often while visiting my parents. The presence of moose is something attracting many tourists to Sweden, especially Germans. Also it brings a lot of income to the souvenir shops; did you know that there actually even is a market for selling dry poo from moose..

    I totally agree with you that doing a year abroad is really fun. The opportunity to live in an other country is an unique experience, that changes your perspectives and inspires for more traveling. Furthermore by living abroad you have a lot opportunities to practice intercultural communication skills, which likely will be very useful in today's globalized world.

    See you,

    Mikaela

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    1. Hey Mikaela, yupp I stayed in Rydsvägen, block 242! I remember falling in love with moose in one of the restaurants in Norge! Not sure if it was because I was too hungry and cold that everything was mums! I'm glad you've enjoyed studying in Singapore and traveling in the neighboring countries. A pity we didn't get to interact much during this course. Thankfully for technology, we can still chat online or something! All the best and keep in touch! (:

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  3. Hi Samantha!

    Thank you for sharing this story! It is so heartwarming to know that the Swedes were so welcoming to foreign exchange students. I think that food was a great way to bring people together. It was also a great way to initiate conversation to better understand another’s cultures.

    This could backfire though. My friend went to Hong Kong for exchange and met a couple of Mexican students. The Singaporeans brought them to have Chinese cuisine and the Mexicans were apparently horrified to see roast duck and chicken. They were appalled to see the entire “dead body” being plated and refused to take a bite. For the trip they did not join in for another “Chinese” dinner and preferred to eat fast food or home cooked meals.

    In a sense, I guess one need to be a little adventurous when trying international cuisine. Then again, I am sure that there is some food you and I would refuse to go near too. So I guess we cannot really blame anyone for that decision.

    Cheers,
    Xiao Wei

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    1. Oh Xiaowei! Thank you for the insight! I had NO idea that the Mexicans would react so strongly. Are they vegetarians then? :/ I agree with you that we need to be more adventurous, not just in terms of food but in other cultural areas as well! After, we are all interconnected in this globalized world. Knowing more about each other's culture will definitely help us to work together better. (:

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  4. Thank you, Samantha, for this richly detailed post. Like Michelle, I was having hunger pangs as I read this. You do a great job of using the dinner description as a platform for presenting info on the various food cultures of the students at the dinner party. I also like the way you discuss the value of English as a means of bringing young people in such situations together.

    Do you know what my greatest surprise is regarding this post? That Mikaela did not know until she read this post that you had studied at her university. You're kidding me, right? You have been in Sweden as an exchange student, and now you are in **communication** class with two Swedish ladies, and you have never once mentioned orally to either of them that you lived and studied in the same place as them. Samantha!

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    1. Hi Brad, I got hungry while writing this post too! Actually, Sofie knew that I was from the same university as her, because we chatted in the first lesson. Mikaela joined us later and I haven't had much chance to interact with her. ):

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  5. Hi Samantha,

    This is not a good post to read while i'm waiting for dinner! :( However, i think you brought up a very good point on how food, as diverse as it may be, is a common platform that brings people together. Despite any differences people from different countries may have, good food is something that anyone love, and can relate to. Learning the history of the different cuisines is also an excellent way to learn about other cultures!

    I think one main factor that contributed to your successful food-sharing, is that your friends there are really open to different cultures and cuisines! That will definitely help set the foundation of bonding over food, and learning about another culture. :)

    Bao Wen

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